Wednesday, February 11, 2026

Being Grateful on the Hodgepodge


Welcome to another week's edition of
Wednesday Hodgepodge, brought to us by


1. What's something recent that had you 'tickled pink'? 


Can we have "somethings?"  Thank you for indulging me.


1.  Our son and daughter-in-love were able to escape the harsh Midwest ice and snow this week for an exclusive resort on a Caribbean island.  This makes these parents tickled pink because they deserve a nice break.


2.  This precious little Greek great-grandson celebrated his 1st birthday.  His American grandparents were there, which made it special for everyone.  Just looking at this picture makes me tickled pink.  He had a Texas Cowboy theme with his first pair of cowboy boots to boot.  All the food was prepared by his family's pastry shop, Melissa, in Athens.  Noah is the 5th generation to enjoy such delicacies.   


3.  These two little great-grandsons brought their mother to visit us last week.  They only live 20 minutes away, but we don't see them often enough.  Their time with us had both Daddea and me tickled pink.


4.  One more - our granddaughter, a freshman at the University of Arkansas, is being given so many opportunities to lead in worship on Cross Church's worship team. It tickles us pink to see how God is using her and us to be able to see the services on YouTube.

2. A bed of roses, everything's coming up roses, every rose has its thorn, stop and smell the roses, rose-colored glasses, a rose among thorns...which rosy expression might currently be applied to your life in some way?


Everything's coming up roses!

 

3. What makes you feel loved and appreciated?


The little things someone does, such as Dick grocery shopping and bringing me flowers every week, or holding my hand before we go to sleep, a granddaughter's visit, a text, or Facetime.  Words of affirmation are my love language, so that's all it takes to make me feel loved and appreciated.


4. A box of chocolates or a bouquet of fresh flowers-what's your pleasure? Any special plans for Valentine's Day?


Always flowers!

Our HOA is hosting a special event featuring one of our residents, who is an accomplished professional singer and pianist.  A night of music and food will be nice.


5. Share a favorite quote, scripture, or song lyric relating to love.


"For this is the way God loved the world:  He gave his one and only Son, Jesus, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life."  John 3:16 NET

 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 


I looked back to 2015 to see what I posted for a Valentine Hodgepodge and want to share the following excerpt.

For the whole post:

Link Here!

As I wrote earlier, Hubby and I met 50 years ago last Friday on a blind date in New Orleans.  We always remember this date and enjoy reliving our first day together.  I thought it would be interesting to go back and reread those first letters to each other.  I'll just share a line or two with you.  Needless to say, it was "love at first sight" for both of us.


Dick wrote his first letter on Sunday night after our meeting on Saturday:
"Are you a dream?  All I've done today is try to remember everything you said and how you look."

Mine was written on Tuesday after getting his letter.  I must have been much more reserved back then.  HA!
"We have more in common than I thought.  All Sunday, Monday, and yes, today, I have found myself with the biggest smile.  Sometimes I feel so full of happiness that I doubt being able to contain it all."

Now, how about that for romance!


 Happy Valentine's to you and your sweetheart. 

Dick and I celebrated our 61st meeting anniversary last week on February 6, 2026.

Melissa Pastry, Athens, Greece

Wednesday, February 4, 2026

A Sweet Sports Hodgepodge

Welcome to another week's post of the Wednesday Hodgepodge meme, which I enjoy taking part in.  Joyce asks the questions, and we answer.

Join us HERE to see how others answered these questions.

1. The Winter Olympics kick off on Friday, February 6th...on a scale of 1-10 how excited are you? (1= eh and 10=watching every event all day every day). What's your favorite Winter Olympic sporting event?
 



Watching the Olympic games is not nearly as exciting as seeing the new Ralph Lauren uniform designs.  This year is a huge hit as far as I'm concerned.  I love the coat and pants set as well as the sweater.  The puffy jacket is simple with all the necessary adornment, which is as it should be.  So, my answer would be a 4.

My favorite part is the opening ceremony and some of the ski jumps.  I will not be watching around the clock.


2. In other sporting news, the Superbowl (American football's championship game) will be played on Sunday, February 8th. So tell us... what's your superpower?


Unlike the Olympics, I do get excited about the Superbowl and all the games leading up to it.  And just so you know, I'm pulling for the Patriots.  A bit of trivia:  Robert Spillane, #14 and linebacker for the Patriots, was a college football teammate of our grandson's.  It is so exciting to see how he has developed and is making a Superbowl name for himself.   He is the grandson of 1953 Heisman Trophy winner and College Football Hall of Famer Johnny Lattner.


Now, my superpower?  I'm not sure I have one in the context of the question.  Jesus Christ living in me is my superpower, and without Him, I am nothing.  He, however, enables me to be an encourager to others, a prayer warrior, and a student of the Bible - ever learning, a good housekeeper, wife, and grandmother.  He has given me the desire and ability to write, decorate, and a creative bent.


3. Are you a romantic? 


No, not really, although I do appreciate romance.


4. Blue cheese-yay or nay? How about feta? If you said yes to one or both, what's a dish you like that calls for one of these?


Nay to blue cheese, yay to feta!



Berry Spinach Salad
 

5. What's more important - doing what you love or loving what you do?


I fail to see the difference.  If one is doing what they love, then they love doing it.

 

6. Insert your own random thought here. 


We finally got the ice cleared from the left side of our driveway yesterday, ten days after the Texas ice and snow storm of 2026.  Now, Hubby can use his own vehicle.  This week's high will be near 80 degrees.  That is an 80-degree jump from a few days ago.  Only in Texas!



While we couldn't leave our garage or open our front door, we decided to binge the new Netflix 2005 series, "The Closer."  Needless to say, we are still working our way through the 7 seasons by allowing ourselves only a few episodes each day.  That's hard to do because we are really enjoying the plots and characters.  I understand this series led into the more recent "Major Crimes."


Wednesday, January 21, 2026

It's Winter on the Hodgepodge

We are expecting a winter storm this weekend with possible ice and snow between 3 and 5 inches.  Do you have any idea what this does to life in Texas?  It becomes a standstill!  Frankly, we don't mind as we have everything we need on hand, as long as the power doesn't go out.


It is Wednesday, and that means it is time for the Hodgepodge. 

Joyce asks the questions.

We answer the questions.

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1. Ice skating, skiing, sledding, snowshoeing, playing in the snow, or a snowy walk...which winter activity do you choose? Have you done any of these activities so far this winter?

A winter walk
Yes, we did several winter walking excursions during our winter trip to Indiana.  You can read about them on my blog.

2. Everyone is posting pictures from ten years ago on their social media sites, so let's jump on the bandwagon, too. Share one photo and one thought to go with said photo from the year 2016. And maybe everyone isn't doing this, but many are, and we're going to be part of the fun.

 


Our grandson, the tallest one in the backrow, played left guard for Western Michigan University, and in 2016, they and Alabama were the only undefeated college teams in the nation.  As a result, they were invited to play in the Cotton Bowl in Dallas, TX.  After such a great year, this game was the capping achievement.  All of our family was there to share in this great memory.  His parents are on the left.


My sister, Sarah (center), and her family also made the trip, and this was one of her favorite memories.  Mine too!

3. What's a trend you hope disappears in this new year? 


I'm hoping this is only a trend and not becoming a cultural norm -   public protesting of whatever you disagree with, with or without being paid to do so.


4. 'They' say there's a day for everything, and January 21st proves it. National Granola Bar Day. Do you like granola bars? How about just regular granola? Do you like bars of other kinds?


No, I am not a granola eater.  It is too crunchy for my taste.

 

5.  A frozen lake, a trickling stream, a raging river, or a deep well...which one describes something about your life right now? Elaborate as much or as little as you like. 


Mishawaka, Indiana

This is an interesting question, and one I am having to think about.  That being said, let's go with a trickling stream by eliminating all the other choices.

Frozen Lake - I am not at a standstill in my life, which this denotes to me.

Raging River - This denotes anger, rushing, discontent to me and none of these apply.

Deep Well - To me, this means in a situation or lifestyle that is difficult to surmount.  Or, it could possibly mean being a deep thinker.  Neither of these descriptions applies to me at this point in my life.

So, a trickling stream is what it is.  Our lifestyle is the speed we wish it to be, and nothing is upsetting or disconcerting that we aren't handling.


6. Insert your own random thought here.


I have finally published the blogs about our winter trip, which you can read in my previous post.   There are links there to the first two.


I saw the following video and found it so encouraging.  It doesn't take a college education or being a seminary graduate to make a difference in someone's life.

You may need to adjust the volume in the upper left corner of the video to hear it.



Tuesday, January 20, 2026

Winter Trip Recall #3 Belmont Mansion

How it began:

Last year, my friend Cele recommended a book she thought I would enjoy. Dick promptly ordered it for me, and once I began reading, I couldn’t put it down. As a result, I ordered the other two books in the series—only to discover that I had started with the final book. No problem!


The series, A Belmont Mansion Fiction, was written by Christian author Tamera Alexander and consists of three novels. While the stories are primarily fiction, Alexander skillfully weaves in real historical events and people. Belmont Mansion does exist, and its owner, Adelicia Acklen—a character in the books—was a real person. Many of the other characters were also inspired by individuals who lived during the post–Civil War era.


While reading these books, the characters came alive for me, and in my vivid imagination, I relived this period, especially the Belmont Mansion.  I knew that at our first opportunity, we must visit this place.  That door opened on our return trip from Indiana, January '26.  And that is the story I want to share with you.  I must make a disclaimer that any incorrect information is my fault and not that of the guide or informational sources.




The mansion was built on the highest point in Nashville, overlooking the thriving city. Belmont, which is French for "beautiful mountain," was built in an Italian Villa style with classical overtones.  It is now among other buildings on the Belmont University Campus.



Our guide was excellent and truly brought the antebellum period at Belmont to life. As I walked through the house, I could easily envision Adelicia moving from room to room—hosting guests and interacting with the fictional characters I had come to know.



To keep this from becoming a novel in itself, I’ll try to limit both the details and the number of photos. I do hope, however, that I share enough to spark your curiosity and inspire you to do a little research—or even visit the mansion yourself.



Adelicia was born in Nashville on March 15, 1817, one of seven children. She grew up in Nashville.  Educating girls in the early 1800s was not common; however, Adelicia’s father believed in educating his three daughters, so she was enrolled at the Nashville Female Academy. Having a great intellect, she graduated at the age of 16, fluent in three languages and with all the social graces wealth could afford.


After finishing school in 1834, she became engaged to Alfonso Gibbs, a Harvard Law graduate, who planned to become a lawyer. Sadly, shortly before the wedding, Alfonso died.  The picture above was to be her wedding portrait.  After Alfonso's death, she returned it to the artist and had him paint her dress black.

When she was twenty-two, she married Isaac Franklin, who was 28 years older than she.  He was a wealthy planter and slave trader.  They lived on a 2000-acre plantation in Gallatin, TN.  On the plantation, there were enslaved men, women, and children, and it was through their forced labor that the Franklins made a lot of their money.

The Franklins had six children, all of whom died in childhood.

In 1846, Isaac died of a virus while visiting one of his plantations in Louisiana.  After his death, Adelicia inherited all of his property, valued at $1 million.  That included all of the plantations, 750 enslaved people, and more than 50,000 acres of land in Texas.  She became one of the wealthiest women in the South at the age of 29.



Three years after Franklin’s death, Adelicia married Colonel Joseph A. S. Acklen, a lawyer from Huntsville, Alabama, who signed a prenuptial contract giving his wife complete control of all her businesses, property, and assets. The couple began immediate construction of Belmont, a twenty-thousand-square-foot summer villa.


The Acklens lived a sumptuous lifestyle, traveling between Belmont in the summer and their Louisiana plantations in the winter. The couple had six children, two of whom died young. Acklen, a superb businessman and plantation manager, had tripled his wife’s fortune by 1860.


During the Civil War, the Acklens aligned with the Union in hopes of saving their mansion, and indeed that did happen, even though it was taken over by Union officers, and hundreds of soldiers dominated and destroyed the immaculate grounds.  The home was left untouched.


At the end of the Civil War, the Acklens' cotton fortune in Louisiana was being threatened with financial ruin when the Confederate army threatened to burn 2,800 bales of their cotton to keep it from falling into Union possession.  Colonel Acklen rushed to Louisiana to try to save the crops and died before a deal could be made.  Adelicia, upon learning of her husband's death, boldly went to Louisiana and secretly negotiated with both sides to save her fortune. 

She secured Confederate promises not to burn her cotton, while the Union army agreed to help her move the cotton to New Orleans. Acklen ran the Union blockade and sold her cotton to the Rothschilds of London for a reported $960,000 in gold. Three weeks after Robert E. Lee’s surrender in 1865, Acklen and her children left for a year-long European tour to retrieve the money made from this cotton sale.  This became known as her "European Grand Trip," where she is said to have befriended Queen Victoria.  As evidence of that, Adelicia had a huge portrait of the Queen hung at the head of the spiral staircase.


It was during this trip that she purchased many of the sculptures and art pieces that decorated the mansion, some of which now reside in the museum.

In 1867, the 50-year-old Adelicia married Dr. William Cheatham, a respected Nashville physician, who also owned and ran the Insane Asylum.  He was also a landscape enthusiast. which could have contributed to the attraction.  Cheatham also signed a prenuptial agreement.  They were married for 20 years, spending most of their time at Belmont.


In 1886 Adelicia sold Belmont, left Nashville and Cheatham, and moved to Washington, D.C. with her three adult children.  Her oldest son already resided there.  Adelicia Acklen died on May 4, 1887, while on a shopping trip to New York City, of pneumonia.  She is buried in Nashville.

Following her death, her children took all of the possessions they wanted from the mansion, then had a 3-day estate sale.  Fortunately, these records were kept, which made it possible to retrieve many of the original items from the home when it was purchased by The Belmont Mansion Association in the 1970s.  Over 190 items were donated by the widow of a descendent of Pauline, and great, great-grandson of Adelicia.



Now that we’ve covered the history, let’s head inside the beautifully restored mansion.



Upon entering the large double doors, you are greeted by one of the European statues  that caught Adelicia's attention,  "Ruth". This entry and statue are mentioned numerous times in Alexander's fictional writings, so I felt I had walked into a familiar space.

From here, guests would have been taken to one of the parlors, which were Adelicia's central entertaining spaces.

Central Parlor

Later, after she and husband Joseph Acklen enlarged the home, which included the Grand Salon, in 1861, this large area with its open doors overlooking the estate, became the main entertaining space.


Grand Parlor


The formal dining room was exquisitely set with pieces of the original china and cut glass goblets.  The 12 dining room chairs are original.  To complete just twelve place settings for such a formal occasion, the Acklens needed over 300 pieces of china in a single set (they owned seven).

A large set of flatware could have consisted of over 1,000 pieces, and this is not to mention the number of glasses needed.


On the second level are the bedrooms.



The boy's section consisted of two spacious rooms, as the Acklens had three sons.  Above is one of the original beds still remaining.


Adjoining the boy's rooms was Pauline's bedroom.  She was their only surviving daughter.  It was said that Pauline loved her dolls and wanted them on her bed.  I don't know that anything in this room is original to the home or donated furniture from the period.


The Principle Bedroom would have been Adelicia and Joseph's.  It is a lovely room containing several original pieces that would have been used by them.


From all accounts, Adelicia was a good friend of President Andrew Jackson, whose home, the Hermitage, is outside of Nashville.  It is said that she so admired a wallpaper in his home, that she had it duplicated for her bedroom.  The current wallpaper is a restoration of that paper.


Behind a decorative screen would have been their private bathroom.  Although the house did have running water, it was not accessible upstairs.

The following picture is the dresser that would have been in this bedroom.



Just off this bedroom was the "Trunk Room."  Adelicia would have required many trunks to accommodate her extensive wardroom.  Our guide told us that it was her custom to change her attire at least once during the day - probably to dress in a more formal style for dinner.

As there were no closets in that era, trunks were required for storing as well as for traveling.  We were not told where poor Joseph kept his suits.

Look closely at the floor.  This was original to the house.  The wooden floors were painted patterns chosen by the owners.  Adelicia especially favored the marbled checkerboard design, as can be seen in the Grand Parlor.



This concludes my more extensive tour than I had planned. If you made it this far, thank you.

Adelicia was truly a woman ahead of her time—highly intelligent, driven, an independent businesswoman, and an inspiration to those around her. She endured the heartbreaking loss of seven children and two husbands, all while successfully maintaining a vast fortune and overseeing 177 acres of land.


At Belmont, she was able to retain a loyal group of servants. Because the estate was intended as a summer villa rather than a working farm, enslaved labor was limited primarily to maintaining the home.


Following the Civil War, Adelicia sold all of her plantations and land holdings in Louisiana and Texas for a substantial sum.  One of those Louisiana plantations, known as Angola, was later purchased and converted into a farm-based penitentiary.  The name remained, and it is now the Angola State Penitentiary.


Once again, I highly recommend Tamera Alexander’s Belmont Mansion series for your reading enjoyment.


After an overnight stay in Little Rock, AR, where we were fortunate to have lunch with our nephew, Lee, and his wife, Jacqueline. 



We arrived home before dark with hearts overflowing with gratitude.  Our trip was blessed by safety (3,000 miles), time spent with precious family and friends, and great experiences that we cherish.  Thank you, Father, for your mercy and grace.]


Below are links to the previous "recalls" from our 2025-2026 winter trip.