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2. When it comes to travel, are you a last-minute packer or a lay it all out a week in advance type? Do you struggle to pack light? Share a packing tip that has worked for you.
I am a combination of the two. I start packing early by putting in things I will need on the trip. Then, the last-minute things go in the day before we leave. I am pretty good at planning my wardrobe and what I can mix & match. However, this time I overpacked the jeans I would need. My favorite packing tip is to tightly roll all my clothes. They fit so much better and don't tend to wrinkle as easily. Sure takes up much less space.
3. April is National Grilled Cheese Month. Hmmm...who knew it got its own month? Do you like a grilled cheese sandwich? What ingredient do you add to take yours to the next level?
4. There's a well-known quote that says-
'A ship in the harbor is safe, but that's not what ships are built for." John A. Shedd
Is constant growth necessary, or do you think it's more important to prioritize stability and peace in your life?
As a Christian, I think we are encouraged to always be growing in Christ's likeness. That is my desire. That being said, stability and a sense of peace are also to be desired, and I believe can only truly be found in achieving the prior.
5. Let's wrap this up with a fun spring this or that-
- daffodils or tulips - Daffodils
- lemonade or iced tea - Iced sweet tea
- gardening or hiking - Neither! Can't do either one anymore
- ladybugs or butterflies - Butterflies
- umbrella or raincoat - Umbrella
- floral patterns or polka dots - Neither, but I'll go with polka dots
6. Insert your own random thought here.
We traveled down via the scenic routes through Southwest Texas to the Big Bend NP area a couple of weeks ago, arriving back home this past Monday. It had been on our bucket list since moving to Texas five years ago. It was a gloriously long and at times very tiring drive to the park, which we managed in two days. Texas has one of the most diverse topographies, and of course is enormous. There is no getting anywhere in a hurry.
After leaving the Tin Bit Ranch, where we stayed for three nights, we drove north to the Guadalupe Mountains, then northeast to the little New Mexico town of Alamogordo. We loved driving through the White Sands National Park there and seeing other sights in the area.
Easter Sunday morning, we attended a very small First Baptist Church before driving north to our final destination.
These are a few of our favorite sights along the way.
Three Twisted Sisters Scenic Drive Three Twisted Sisters Scenic Drive
| Big Bend NP |
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| White Sands NP |
Wednesday, March 4, 2026
Welcome to our Wednesday Hodgepodge, where Joyce asks the questions and we answer. Join us on her blog here.
2. Where in your life are you a lion? Where are you a lamb?
I can be a lion when I feel strongly about something, and an opportunity to express my opinion presents itself. I am a lamb when the Holy Spirit nudges me and says, "That's enough, Libby."
3. The Hodgepodge lands on National Pound Cake day. Do you like pound cake? If so do you have a favorite flavor? Let's play this or that-
Pound cake is my husband's favorite cake, but have I made one in the past 40 years? Nope!
- pound cake or layer cake? Layer cake - preferably German Chocolate
- pound cake or cheesecake? Pound cake
- pound cake or angel food cake? Angel Food cake
- pound cake or brownie? BROWNIE! I can seek out a brownie on a large table full of every imaginable dessert.
- pound cake or pie? Pound cake with fresh strawberries and whipped cream or ice cream.
4. What makes you feel childlike wonder right now?
Watching two of our great-grandchildren explore new things that their grandmother shares with us on Snapchat.
5. What's one thing you need to add to your wardrobe to get ready for spring? If you're in the southern hemisphere, then answer for fall?
I need more pants selections. A neighbor bought the prettiest top for my birthday last year, and I liked it so much that I ordered several more in different colors and designs. I need to swap in my winter leggings for something more appropriate for a Texas summer to go with my new tops.
6. Insert your own random thought here.
It is in the most amazing moments of sparkles and light that there will always be shadows. So when all you see are shadows, turn and look for the light. One cannot exist without the other.
Sunday, March 1, 2026
But let's look at the comparison another way. I have found that both of these often co-exist, or rather, one can lead to the other. Out of destruction, we often find greater things than we would not have otherwise. Let me share with you a personal experience.
In 1964, the man I planned to marry was killed in an automobile accident. I experienced a great loss and pain. Out of that experience, God revealed His plan by bringing together two people who would have never met otherwise. Dick and I met in February 1965 and were married a few months later. Out of that tragedy and loss came the greatest blessing that has now lasted 61 years.
Let's look at it another way. There are moments of great creativity, and while being creative, it sometimes results in destruction. An exercise that we have put our whole being into producing may not go as planned. It could have been in the most amazing moment of creativity that you had planned for and looked forward to, that something went wrong, or someone disapproved, or something broke, or no one showed up. Did you feel a momentary letdown, or did you never try again?
It is in the midst of sparkles and light that there will always be shadows. So, how do we reconcile these diversions in our lives? Love one and hate the other, or learn to live with both?
To me, that is what the death, burial, and resurrection of Jesus Christ mean. In destruction, we find life! In beauty, we find the Creator and life eternal. In pain, we can find love and peace and joy. They co-exist and can lead to an abundant life in Christ.
So when you see shadows, turn and look for the light. There cannot be one without the other.
Wednesday, February 25, 2026
Of the cities listed, how many have you seen in person?
Does the LaGuardia Airport in NYC count? Washington D.C., Charleston, SC, and Jamestown-Williamsburg-Yorktown, VA
Of the cities listed, which would you most like to visit this year? Any plans to do so?
I would never pass up another trip to Charleston, SC. This is one of our favorite places to visit, but it won't likely happen this year.
What's one place in America you think everyone should see? If you're not American, what's one place in the US you'd like to see?
Seeing Washington, D.C., even once has a way of turning history from words on a page into something living and tangible. Walking past the monuments, standing in the Capitol, or visiting Arlington gives you a deeper appreciation for the ideals, sacrifices, and responsibilities that come with being an American.
If a trip to D.C. isn’t possible, visiting your own state capital can be just as meaningful.
Whether national or state, capital cities help ground us in our shared history and remind us that citizenship is something to be understood, appreciated, and never taken for granted.
3. Three sounds you hate to hear?
The siren of an emergency vehicle, a high-pitched woman's voice, a child's scream
4. February 24th is/was National Tortilla Chip Day. Are you a fan? With salsa, guacamole, queso, or just plain, please? Do you like nachos? With what on top?
We discovered these while visiting our family in Indiana during Christmas. I am not a big chip eater, but I really do like these. I have mostly eaten them just plain, but guacamole is great too. Yes, we do like Nachos, and these chips are great with melted cheese. I couldn't tell you the last time we ordered Nachos when eating out, but we did make some for the Super Bowl.
Is there anything (besides nachos) you make that calls for tortilla chips?
Chicken Mexican Casserole. It is delicious, but I'm afraid it's been too long since making it.
5. We March into March with next week's Hodgepodge...what's one thing on your March calendar that makes you smile?
6. Insert your own random thought here.
I should also mention ChatGPT. After doing a bit of research on the most scenic highways in Texas between Big Bend and home, I asked ChatGPT to plan a detailed road trip for us using those specific highway numbers. By the way, she’s definitely a "she" to me.
Within seconds — no coffee break required — she produced a beautifully organized itinerary. I was so impressed that I kept asking for more: scenic routes, mileages, stops, and timing. Each request was met instantly, without a sigh, an eye roll, or even a hint of impatience.
Needless to say, we now have the most detailed and well-thought-out trip we’ve ever taken. At this point, all she cannot do is drive the car… and frankly, I wouldn’t be surprised if that feature is coming soon.
I also let her plan my travel wardrobe and make packing suggestions, which was very helpful; however, she hasn't offered to help pay for anything.
Monday, February 23, 2026
irrelevancy
noun
The word irrelevancy has come up in several conversations with friends lately. Irrelevant simply means disconnected or not pertinent to the subject at hand.
In our case, the subject was our current season of life — retirees, parents, grandparents, and, for some of us, great-grandparents.
Let me say up front that these thoughts are not meant to be derogatory or critical. They are reflective, honest, and realistic. But most of all, written with great love.
Several months ago, Dick and I were talking about this stage of our lives and certain situations beyond our control. I casually remarked that we are in our “phase of irrelevancy.” We both laughed — but we also knew there was truth in it.
Our two children are middle-aged adults with demanding careers and responsibilities. Their children are all adults. Four of our seven grandchildren are parents themselves, most living far away. Those without children are busy navigating careers, marriages, and schooling. Life is full — as it should be.
We understand this. We remember those years well, when we could not imagine fitting one more thing into our days. Many of those days hold some of our dearest memories. And we wouldn’t want it any other way for them.
Our lives in our 80s are good. We are as involved as we choose to be. We live in contentment and satisfaction, needing nothing more to bring us joy. Our true joy comes from our relationship with Jesus Christ. In Him is our completeness.
This “phase of irrelevancy” is one many of our friends share as well. We all get it. It is simply part of this season of life.
We miss the interactions with our children. Hearing the everyday stories. Watching our grandchildren interact with their children and great-grandchildren grow and develop.
And yet…
We understand. We rejoice in their successes and excitement in seeing their own children and grandchildren flourish. We thank God for every blessing they experience. We pray for them daily.
And yet…
This morning, a thought stopped me in my tracks:
If we feel irrelevant at times, how must God feel when we only think about Him on Sundays?
How must He feel when we fail to engage Him in our daily lives — when we don’t consult Him in our plans, share our joys or concerns, or seek His? When we choose our phones, social media, or a good book over His Good Book?
Do we ever just sit and quietly enjoy simply being in His presence because we love Him? Are we too busy and preoccupied with life to just be still and know?
Do we make God irrelevant in our lives?
I’m afraid the answer is often yes. It is for me.
But this does not have to be our reality. He has promised, “I am with you always." He invites us to seek Him, to talk with Him, to share our thoughts, ideas, concerns, joys, excitements, plans, frustrations, and yes, to ask for forgiveness for disappointing Him. To think of Him without ceasing. He reminds us that if He cares for the sparrow, how much more does He care for us. As His children, we need to let Him know we need Him, not just in the crisis times of our lives.
As we approach Easter and reflect on the death, burial, and resurrection of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, let us commit to living in close, relevant fellowship with Him every day.
He deserves nothing less.
Thursday, February 19, 2026
I read the most disturbing report this morning. In a stunning 340-to-141 vote, with 68 members abstaining, the parliament of the European Union last Thursday approved a resolution affirming “the full recognition of trans women as women.” Yes, you read that right. Men are now women according to the EU, and if you can believe it, female members of the parliament happily celebrated their own erasure.
Women, we are in a battle for our own identity. Trans ideology is a wholesale assault upon the feminine. There was no vote on whether a gender-confused woman is a man, and there won't be. When trans ideology metastasizes in policy and practice, women pay the price.
Kara Dansky wrote in her book, "The Abolition of Sex," 'Transgender' is simply a made-up concept...used to justify all kinds of atrocities against women. It is in effect a men's rights movement intended to objectify women's bodies and erase us as a class." She adds, "It is left-wing misogyny on steroids."
It gets even worse. The EU parliament also rejected an amendment "that only biological women can become pregnant." Can you believe that 233 members of this 'elite' group agreed that men can get pregnant, while 107 members abstained? How can this be confusing? Out of the group, only 200 affirmed that only women get pregnant. This is a madhouse!
So how does this affect us women here in America, not to mention around the world? It means that "woman" now means anything you want it to mean. It is erasing the meaning of women and human fertility across the 27 member countries and the United Nations.
Women and girls throughout the world should be furious, and so should the men as well. If we don't stand up now for the feminine dignity and meaning of "WOMAN", there will soon be none at all. And let us not miss that if a man can be a woman, manhood ceases to exist as well.
Trans ideology is a poison deliberately attacking that which is most true and beautiful in humanity. It leads only to death, confusion, and sterilization. God created male and female; however, this new ruling is leading to transhumanism, in total contradiction to God's creation.
Just because this ruling was made by the EU, don't think for one minute it won't affect us here. It will radiate beyond their Strasbourg auditorium, throughout the United Nations, and countless illiberal European nations, into our communities as well. It already resides among our Chief Justices. Satan is alive and well in our world!
Trans-deception is real, and the only way to stop it is to stand against it, unmask its deception, and denounce it at every turn. Know what the candidates running for election in your area stand for. Insist that laws be established that protect women, thereby also protecting men and children.
May God bless America!
Wednesday, February 18, 2026
As I'm writing this on Fat Tuesday, the Mardi Gras scene above will be scattered all over cities, small towns, and villages across my home state, Louisiana. Everything closes down to allow thousands of people to participate in these parades. You will hear "throw me something, Mister" all across the state.
2. Pancakes...are you a fan? Syrup or no syrup? Plain, blueberries, chocolate chips, bananas, or some other add-in? Are pancakes on your menu this week?
I love pancakes. Am I a fan of syrup with my pancakes? I prefer to explain that I love pancakes with my syrup. And, make it warm maple syrup, please. Who eats dry pancakes? I don't mind bananas and nuts on my pancakes. They will not be on my menu this week unless Hubby decides to take me out for brunch one morning.
3. Tell us about a time recently when you felt 'spread too thin'.
Thankfully, there hasn't been a time such as this recently.
4. What's your favorite jewel or gemstone? In terms of your wardrobe, would we find more gem tones, pastels, black and white, or primary colors?
My favorite stone is topaz, as it is my birthstone. My favorite piece of jewelry, besides my wedding ring, is a lovely topaz ring I designed and purchased in Haifa, Israel, in 1972. In my closet, you will find predominantly black and browns as well as orange and orangey reds.
5. What responsibility do you think is hardest about being in charge?
Making sure everyone involved sees things the way I do. LOL!
6. Insert your own random thought here.
Christmas '25, I purchased the most comfortable walking shoes I have ever worn.
I bought them while visiting our family in Indiana. I had never heard of the brand and have not found them in the DFW metroplex. Diadora is an Italian sportswear and footwear company. While in Indiana this year, I purchased a second pair. I highly recommend this brand if you are in the market for a comfortable and supportive pair of shoes.
Saturday, February 14, 2026
As I looked at each of these women that day, I marveled at how every one of them made my heart sing. Later, I was reminded of a seminar I once gave on the power of first impressions—and how quickly they are formed.
Have you heard the term “thin-slicing”? It has nothing to do with vegetables. It refers to the brain’s ability to form an instant judgment about someone’s confidence, competence, and likability — often in less than a second. Researchers believe this instinct developed as a survival tool, helping us quickly decide whether someone is friend or foe.
Studies show it takes just one-tenth of a second to form an initial impression, and less than two seconds to make one that lasts. Our minds gather a collection of subtle cues and turn them into an overall feeling—one that often lingers long after the details fade.
As image consultant Emily Cho put it,
“People make vital decisions about a stranger in less time than it takes to blink an eyelash. If you squander that moment, you’ll have to work awfully hard for the next one.”
First impressions matter—and these women remind me just how beautifully a lasting first impression can be made.
Notice how each lady expressed red in her own unique way. For some, it appeared in stripes; for others, it was a single piece of jewelry. Debbie, who usually reflects her sweet personality through soft colors, chose a deep pink that suited her beautifully. Mary’s only red item in her closet, was a Christmas sweater, which she paired with black - making a statement only she could pull off.
Carol and Brenda wore rich, jewel-toned reds that perfectly enhanced their dramatic presence. Lois chose a red with warm orange undertones, ideal for her coloring. Dot topped off her look with a cap that matched her outgoing, friendly, always-smiling personality. Our lovely hostess, shown in the lower right, looked chic in her stylish black-rimmed glasses—something only she can truly get away with.
As for me, I chose a bold gold necklace between the red and my yellow-toned skin, completing my own version of the look.
Someone said, “It is impossible to make a 2nd 1st impression.”
So, what really determines a good first impression? I think you’ll agree that each of these beautiful ladies made a lasting one, not just by how they looked, but because each radiates confidence, kindness, and above all, the love of God.
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