With that in mind I was reminded of a recent article written by Natalie Livingstone for Vogue Magazine about Charlene Wittstock, now the bride of Prince Albert of Monaco. Wittstock made this statement:
"Finding my fashion feet has certainly been the biggest challenge," she says, remembering her 'trial by fire' at Monaco's 2007 Red Cross Ball. "I was literally a fish out of water. I thought it was all fun, fun, fun, and didn't give my outfit any thought. I had been playing beach volleyball all day, painted my nails red, and threw on a green dress. I thought I looked great at the time, but looking back, I realize that my debut into Monaco society should have been better executed!"Has this ever happened to you? It sure has to me! There have been times when I either did not put enough thought into my appearance for a particular event or totally misjudged the appropriateness of my attire.
I will never forget thinking I looked pretty cute for a class I attended only to be told that I evidently dressed only to get attention. This judgmental statement angered me at first and I let the person know how much I resented the remark; however, afterward I realized that my accuser had actually done me a favor. My appearance had mistakenly conveyed a false message about me.
Charlene Wittstock claims that from her embarrassing experience she learned how to dress more suitably for her body and her new role. She watched other people, listened to constructive comments, and sought professional opinions, all of which resulted in the new princess establishing her own personal style. After all, she represents the Prince of Monaco! I think she was pretty successful, don't you?
From my embarrassing experience, I also learned a valuable lesson. The image I project to others must not just be couched in what I wear, but it must be a true reflection of the person I am inside and whom I represent. For you see, I represent my Father, the King of Kings! And, this is the image that others must see without the distraction of a contradictory appearance.
Hence and therefore, came my study of "Beauty Without Within." How to truly be God's Special Lady.
Please stay with me as we take this interesting journey together. Have a great weekend.